Welcome to the ZBGC Questions and Answers website. We're sorry to hear of this stressful situation you are going through.
So are you looking for transgender-friendly solicitors and psychiatrists? If so, we suggest that you contact The Gender Centre in Sydney for referrals.
In terms of referrals specifically for solicitors, you could ask the Law Society of New South Wales if they know of any solicitors who would be suitable.
We wish you the very best of luck in dealing with this tough situation.