Yes here is a link of places in Melbourne thru
http://forum.tgr.net.au/phpBB2/viewforum.php?f=41
As to Clothing go to:
Frocked Recycle Boutique
911 High Street
Armadale 3143
Telephone: 9824 7550
See Trisha...the owner, she is very transgender friendly and advertises in the Seahorse Magazine...